Now, the first thing I thought of after seeing this title was T.I. and Pharrell’s “But She a Freak Though”… but I downloaded it anyway. It’s actually a sweet lil’ song… the way I took it. Yes, I’m not ashamed to say that I respect my Granny and keep the goodies on clink, not for any particular religious or moral reasons, but mostly because I’m selfish and I usually don’t do anything unless there’s a noticable benefit for me involved. To date, I haven’t yet met a gentleman who’s enough of a pro to override the cons. (And I mean that in whatever way you want to take it.)
I have at least one very good friend who shares the same opinion, and while sometimes it looks like we’re going to end up being lonely old ladies with a million cats, I look at my other friends fretting over pregancy scares and crazy infections and I just don’t want to deal with it. Honestly, I have enough to worry about as it is. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not exactly a nun (and I mean that however you want to take it). But I made a conscious decision several years ago that I was not under any circumstances going to have a kid grow up under the same conditions that I did and the older I get, the more comfortable I am in that decision.
So I’m not going to sit here and say that I’m not having sex until I’m married or engaged, because I honestly don’t know. I mean, Gary Dourdan could show up anytime. All I know is, it’s a hot song. Take that or leave it.